1. Don’t be that heartless; you have refused to win Souls for Christ, yet you drive those who have been won by others with your reckless attitude.

  1. With the same ATTITUDE, expect no change in ALTITUDE. You can’t afford to keep doing what you used to do last year, yet, expect a leap of improvement this year. 05/01/15

  1. It doesn’t matter which village you live in; when God makes you useful, men will travel miles from the comfort of their edifices for your help.

  1. I have discovered that love doesn’t guarantee the success of a relationship. Love cannot help you stick to one person all years round, and on the other hand, cheating isn’t always a product of not loving your partner. In fact, loving someone doesn’t guarantee not falling in love with any other person. Relationships work out mostly because of our head not our heart, it work out because of our emotional maturity, empathetic intelligence and self discipline because time will come when you’ll see more beautiful, handsome, romantic, intelligent, sexy, rich, curvy and God fearing people than the one you’re in a relationship with. In those times, love will not help you, self control will help you, emotional intelligence will come to your rescue, commitment will keep you going. With those characteristics, no matter how you feel for someone else, the person you’re committed to will rank first in your life. You think happily married people don’t see better people than the ones they married? You think they don’t feel funny sometimes? You think they don’t catch feelings. They do! But understanding that commitment is greater than feelings is the great arsenal that do destroy that impulse. You can fall in love with anyone, but building a relationship takes absolutely more than what attracted you to them.

It takes more than love. We are too fond of loving when it’s convenient, when it’s sweet. We are too fond of loving when love is there but that can only last for just the first 3-6months of the relationship. After then, you’ll realise that the feelings have dropped, it’s now your responsibility to make it work, not love’s responsibility. Relationships cannot be ready made. You have to build it and it’s never always about love, it requires commitment, it requires intelligent. On the long run in marriages, it’s not just love that keeps them together forever, it’s determination and commitment. Everyone fall in love, it takes little or no effort to do that. But staying in love? Building a relationship? Only the strong and committed ones do that. That’s why we must find that one person and commit to that one, Discipline yourself, bridle your emotions. Building a relationship is hard work, it’s like building a career, It’s like pursuing a dream. It’s always tough, at some point it will be so bitter but you can make it work by putting your heads together, you can scale through the trying time by being focus and committed. The kind of love that attracts two people together is not the kind of love that will keep them together. Be emotionally strong! Be self disciplined. Sticking to one person is not natural, you must develop yourself to do that. It works great and perfect with people of like minds, people of the same believes, people that share the same school of thought.

Build yourself

  1. To love unconditionally, love the way a child loves his mother; caring less about the asset of his mum. In effect, if peradventure his mother is the poorest person on earth, the child has no idea. He doesn’t wish to be the son of the president of the USA or the Queen of England. The bottom line is, his unconditional draws him to both his mum and dad.

  1. The devil keeps orchestrating victory strategies against believers every second. This he does by various means. One of such effective ones is making the believer accept how imperfect imperfect he is. Of course no one can be perfect on their own except divinity intervenes. Jesus is the only one that makes perfect. The devil being “smart”, slaps the believer daily in the face with how imperfect he is even though Christ has already already taken care of all the imperfections. This tool of the devil is so effective that most Christians have fallen prey to it. Galatians 3:3 says: How foolish can you be? After starting your new lives in the Spirit, why are you now trying to become perfect by your human effort? Clearly, we see that trying to be perfect outside of what Christ has already done is not just impossible but demeans the work of Christ on the cross. There is no such thing as perfection outside the Spirit. The devil will always refer the believer to one sin or the other he might have done, hence succeeding in making the believer accept he is imperfect, even in Christ. This has jeopardised the faith of so many believers. They eventually give up on themselves and keep sinning anyway since they are made to believe perfection is an impossibility. And apparently it is so because most believers do so by their own strength and strategies. Galatians 3:3 says: How foolish can you be? After starting your new lives in the Spirit, why are you now trying to become perfect by your human effort?

  1. There is no such thing as perfection outside the Spirit. The devil will always refer the believer to one sin or the other he might have done, hence succeeding in making the believer accept he is imperfect, even in Christ. This has jeopardised the faith of so many believers. They eventually give up on themselves and keep sinning anyway since they are made to believe perfection is an impossibility. And apparently it is so because most believers do so by their own strength and strategies. Galatians 3:3 (NLT). How foolish can you be? After starting your new lives in the Spirit, why are you now trying to become perfect by your human effort?

  1. Some people don’t believe in hell. It will interest you to know that most of such people believe in what can take them there (a life without Christ and sin). So they force themselves to ride on the thought that there isn’t any hell. Think of it this way, what do you lose if you play your part (accepting Jesus and doing His bid) to avoid going there? Or would you rather be reckless and find out on the last day or when you die that indeed there is hell? I guess you’ll seek for another. Fortunately, that other chance is now. I’m not asking you to ask Christ to avoid going to hell. Accept Him because you really want to be with. Both Heaven and hell are real. Jesus loves you.

  1. Huge efforts go into putting a dot with meaning on paper, but seconds to flood it with gibberish.